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The most common mistakes men do when they search for a wife in Russia:

1. Judge women by photos. Glamourous photos, photos as if they are women magazine attract their attention. It is interesting, but 80 percent of the letters are received by 20 per cent of women. But they are no longer beautiful, they are no more interesting than others. They simply have a better photos than others.

Men do not pay attention to psychological test result ,to compatibility. But they will live with a woman, not with pictures. They will be unhappy if they have beautiful wife that is always makes rows or constantly nagging and does not want to sleep with them.

Quite recently I talked to a man from Spain, he was complaining that he had got acquainted by Internet with several Russian ladies, they were completely breathtaking in their pictures, but when he came to meet them they were just average, not superordinary not like those models on the podiums.

He was a walk along the streets of St Petersburg, and saw many beautiful Russian girls walk along the street, they were not in a hurry, talked to their friends, lauphed much. Why did it to the Russian ladies who were in the beautiful photographs, but are tired, boring, not funny? Yes, it can happen too. If a girl exausts themselves with the work (they , for example, only caring for her child or she should hire an apartmnet and it is very expensive in Russia), she does not look her best, and you can not imagine how she changes after rest or after they do not have to work so hard. By accident, all Russian girls that he met his hard work and that he saw them after a full working day (in one case after a night). And he saw in the street Russian girls that had holidays or were students and therefore had vacations or even that it does not work as they had friends who cared them. This is true from such a difference!

2. The second mistake the men who are looking for a Russian bride do is the result of this also. Many men look for models in appearance, they want to be an envy of all their friends. But they want to live with normal girls-warm, kind-hearted, faithful.

But most girls who look like models do not want real relationship, they want just men's admiration, they want to be the center of attention. But they do not need closeness, intimacy, warmth.

The second reason is that, even if there is such a paragon model that combines the latest in warmth and comfort. They are very rare. We have a joke about:
Two men sitting near a fireplace. A man says looking into the fire. I was never married in my life. -- Why? -- I was always looking for the perfect woman for me. -- And? Do not find it? -- No, I found her. But I was not the perfect man for her.

It is a sad joke but I have met some men who were acting like this and I saw them on different sites for more than 10 years.

3. The next mistake is a choice! Men just can't stop (some women are into this also). The best is an enemy of good enouph.They find someone, meet, everything is all right but they continue to look and look for new women. They are poisoned by an idea that maybe somewhere there is a person with whom it is better, who is more interesting.

4. Men register at the site, but they do not want to place a photo or a photo where it is impossible to see if they horrific pictures. Some men are under the illusion that the images will not mean anything for women. It is the men who choose by photographs, but women prefer them to write clever words, write about their profession, their hobbies. Yes, it's good when you write a lot about you, but for women a lot is determined by your photos. They do not want men to look like models (in fact the male models will most likely scare them away, but they want your smile to your eyes, a feeling of calm and confidence that comes from you, for some it is important to see where you are in your house. And only then will they read about your hobbies, your interests and what you want. They are often easy victim of swindlers - swindlers do not pay attention to photos and ready to answer or to write them without asking for new photos.

5. Approximately 50 percent of the men who register on the site prefer to sign on and then wait for the Russian beautiful girls to write. Guess who has more letters, more choice and more options for their love, those 50 percent who are just sitting and waiting for their dream girl to write to them or men who are themselves active, searching themselves and answer also women who write to them? Yes, the second group of men has a much higher chance, especially if take into account that many women do not want the initiators of the communication, they have traditional views about these men and respect as an active side.

6. But the strategy that surpsises me the most is the attitude of some men who have 10 times (or something similar) on the confirmation that this particular woman wants to communicate with them. They send women a wink, a nod or a letter received in return, then sends her a card, received something, then wink, wink, wink, after 6 such "signs of attention" most women start to get tired from this and stop answering. And they continue to send these signs to the the woman of his choice. But most Russian girls are already not interested in them.

7. The last common mistake is that men want to find many women to visit in Russian and only then come, but in reality women who were interested in them loose interest after some time and search for somebody else, men continue their search in the attempt to find more ladies, but again, some ladies do not want to wait for him unknown amount of time and after some time when he does not answer when he can come they stop being interested in him. It is an endless process for them

Why do women register to the agencies? Why are they looking for a husband abroad?

Mostly the reason for Russian girls to register to the sites is to have more chances to find their life partner.

I think, it shows that a girl is really serious about this when she registers to several dating sites. (she can't know beforehand what site is good, what is not. ) . She does not just wait, but she is actively searching by the means that are availabe to her.

For these women it does not matter if they will marry a Russian man or a Western, they just look for love.

2. It is easy to find a boyfriend in Russia, it is diffiuclt to find a husband there. For many women after 30 it is a problem. They can want to have a child, they want stability that marriage here gives, but men prefer to live together but not connect themselves by conjugal ties. Many men do not want to have children, especially the second child. It is an expensive pleasure now in Russia and the government helps families with children very little.

3. Many Russian men are not good fathers and it hurts women. They want to care together for their child, to love, to think. But men in Russia prefer to put all the care on women's shoulders.

American men are more caring to their children and not to only their children. A woman can hope that if she marries an American he will be a good father to her child and to their own one or two more children.

4. Life in European or American countries is more stable and predictable than in Russia. It is not the main reason but one of the reasons why Russian beauitfulgirls leave Russia. You get tired of unstability and unpredictability. You want to live and not to worry what you will live on in several years.The standard of living in Russia for many average people is less than in other developed countries.

5. Many women come to the agency after painful divorces. They were hurt and want to leave everything behind and just leave from the "white page". Feel that there will be a man who will love them and care for them, who will allow them to love in return.